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5 Reasons to Write Your Story Now

5 Reasons to Write Your Story Now5 reasons to write your story now does not mean you will write a book or publish your story in any form. There are many benefits of writing your story for yourself and perhaps your family.

Major accomplishments or being famous not a factor.

Our most remembered stories are not from the rich and famous, but from plain folk who merely penned what happened to them. Your life experiences, good and not so good, weave a story only you can tell. The most seemingly insignificant issues have molded you into the person you are.

Memories fade quickly if not written down.

I wish I could sit with my grandparents and hear their stories again; like how life on the farm was with 16 kids. Each journey is different. Perhaps your journey will encourage others. At the very least, writing your story will increase your faith as you see how God has walked with you.

Free help is available; even if writing only for self.

I subscribe to The Morning Nudge by Suzanne Lieurance.  She offers simple helps, even to those who keep a journal. Who knows what you might do as you get inspired! It’s easy to read and FREE to all; try it here.

Now, here are those 5 reasons to write your story. I want to hear from you!

1. You get to know yourself better.

The main benefactor from telling your story is you! Writing our stories helps us deal with emotions and feelings often trapped inside. Reading our own stories, we gain insight into our feelings about people and circumstances we encounter.

2. You preserve interesting historical facts about your family.

My mother had a strong faith. She never talked about it much, she just lived it. Now, I would like to know how that faith carried her through war years, poverty, loss of children and tragic situations. And, how Mother grew up in mining country, losing her dad at 13.

3. You will understand your own decisions better.

Journal a bit about past decisions you and your family have made. As you pen your progress as a family, life often becomes clearer. You understand better why you are where you are and why those decisions were so difficult to make at the time.

4. You choose what to keep or share.

If you want to publish your story later, beginning with a journal is a good way to weed out areas not for public view. For your benefit, it is good to write as much of your feelings as you can. However, you will want to choose carefully what goes into print.

5. You can do a small book/booklet with limited access.

Writing your story can be as simple as penning a few chapters for your family and close friends. Reasonably priced options for smaller books/booklets are available with as much or little help as you require.

Proverbs 4:23 says we must be very careful about what we think because our thoughts run our life. Writing your story, whether for yourself or for others, will absolutely help you know where your thinking is off and help you get on the right path.

Happy writing, and do let me hear from you on this one.

Hugs,

Reading my article on improving communications may give you some ideas on what you need to write about now. Remember, it’s a journey … one step at a time.  Just start somewhere and build.

 

 

Posted in All Posts, Help | Tagged publish your story, write your story

Surviving Spouses Lose More Than a Loved One

Surviving Spouses Lose More Than a Loved One

Surviving spouses definitely lose more than a loved one. They often lose their identity, their lifestyle changes, their schedules change. This truth was brought home to me some years ago.

Paralyzed, I sat in my hot car, tears flowing down my cheeks. I was weary, embarrassed, lonely, and confused.

My grocery cart, half filled with pork chops, sausage, biscuits, sweet rolls and a variety of snacks was left abandoned in the aisle. For the first time since my husband’s fatal heart attack, I began to realize how much of my life centered on his needs. Those were his favorite foods; I didn’t know how to shop for just myself!

The older we get, the more we experience loss of friends and family. We all know widows and widowers; we send cards and call occasionally, and this is good. A better understanding of their loss may help us to seek out ways we can help them adjust. Here are a few of the changes a widow/widower will experience.

  1. Daily routines will change; what is watched on television, what is cooked for meals, how spare time is spent. Does the one remaining know how to operate things at home? Or drive the car?
  2. Finances. Who paid the bills in the household? Does the survivor know where things are kept and how to handle them? How drastically did their household income change? Will they need help getting by for awhile?
  3. Friends. Often some couples which were close will slowly drift away when you are no longer a couple. Your friend circle may change or disappear completely. Perhaps the single person will now feel out of place, like the third wheel.
  4. Family. Just as friends can change, so does the family dynamic. Not the immediate family so much, but the extended family. His or her family may soon quite calling so often with the spouse gone. It happens; often just because we all think we are too busy.
  5. Home life changes. You won’t watch the same things on TV. You may not be the gardener needed to keep up your spouses beautiful lawn and garden. Yet you may later pursue hobbies that you had given up.

Surviving spouses have adjustments from day one. Of course, it takes time to re-focus after a loved one passes. But their will come a time when life will change.

The bottom line on this article is two-fold. #1, remember to pray for every single person you know that has lost a spouse. #2, ask God what you can do to help them through the adjustment period.

Precious readers, my prayer for you is God’s peace in every part of your life. For those who have lost loved family and friends, I pray for God’s comfort and direction in all you do.

We can always be sure of God’s love. Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.”

Hugs,

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Posted in All Posts, Hope | Tagged lose more than their loved one, surviving spouses

Bringing Joy to a Nursing Home

In my day, senior adults were often placed in ‘Old Age Homes’ and offered little to smile about.  I recall visiting Minnie in her tiny, dim room. She had part of her supper on her tray; a cheese sandwich on white bread and an apple she couldn’t peel.

ThankfulBringing Joy to a Nursing Homely, not so today. Senior adults, for the most part, are cared for as they should be. They are the foundation of who we are as a nation and deserve our respect and care.

Recently, a group of preschoolers visited our local nursing home and the results were amazing.

The children were paired with seniors for the day. They would share a meal and then “paint” a picture together.

Together: that is the main point! The children didn’t come simply to visit, sing, hug and leave. They came to share with the residents.

Click here to learn about a Preschool in a Nursing Home.

The meal was kid-friendly; hot dogs and tater tots!  Actually, that’s a great meal for any age! The adults and kids got acquainted and learned a bit about each other. Then, it was time for a fun activity; painting a picture together!

Life lessons were taught here.

1. Personal involvement is important at any age. Young and old alike need each other.

2. Everyone has something to give. These little ones gave of their time; they shared unconditional love to strangers.

3. You are never too old to have fun.  A “painting” of colored water blown on a paper brought laughter and wonder to both ages.

Proverbs 17:22 (Amplified) reads, “A happy heart is good medicine and a joyful mind causes healing …”  This day, children may have done more than the doctor in restoring health to these precious senior adults.

Hugs,

Looking forward to hearing from you. Post a comment.     

Posted in All Posts, Hope | Tagged happy heart, nursing home, preschool in nursing home, senior adults

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