This week I learned of my brother’s good example of a caring smile offered hope for others and encouragement. I think he was as surprised as I that his simple acts of kindness meant so much to others.

We were leaving a gospel concert when an enthusiastic lady practically jumped into his arms. The two of them hugged, giggled, wept like long-lost family as I stood by. He finally introduced me to Lois.

“Pleased to meet you,” she said. “I’m sure you are wondering who in the world I am!”

Well, that was indeed an understatement.

“Your brother saved my life. I do not know how I could have made it through the past few months without his caring smile.”  As Lois shared her story, I saw a different side of my little brother. Lois’ husband had been in dialysis three times a week with Richard. Apparently, her husband did not take it well, was harsh with her and gave the employees a difficult time.

She said Richard’s steady smile had saved her much pain. “Walking out of that place and seeing your brother’s broad smile and bright twinkling eyes gave me courage to keep going one more day.”

Apparently her husband had to be coaxed into returning each visit and grumbled and complained the entire four hours.

My brother, on the other hand, had accepted this as a part of life; he followed doctor’s orders as far as eating and activities and readily came to his appointments. He chose to look beyond his circumstances and encourage those around him.

I am told that he often brings the men and women working in that unit freshly baked treats. He also brings them his first Iris blooms, given heartily with hugs and smiles.

I did not know my brother was such a ray of sunshine! He has chosen to be an encourager and live every day of his life for others regardless of circumstances. I am proud of him.

Perhaps this is a lesson for each of us. When we get tired and want to run away, maybe we need to find someone needing a hug or smile and therefore lighten both our loads.

God bless you on your journey, let me hear from you.