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Unsung Heroes of the Faith

“And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.” Colossians 3:17 NKJV

The music leader proudly announced that the men in the congregation would provide the special music for Father’s Day. Tears welled up in my eyes as these towers of strength ambled forward, opened their songbooks, and sang from their hearts.

As they began to sing, I asked God to forgive me when I refused to sing out for Him in small groups because “I can’t sing”. I thanked Him that I have a voice, memory to know the words, and freedom to worship where I choose.

Each of these men struggles with health and other issues, yet are in God’s house every time the doors are open. They rush to meet needs in the community, sharing God’s love at every opportunity. Singing is clearly not their forte, yet they stand tall and give their best for Jesus’ sake when called upon.

Did they harmonize? Did they get every note (or any note) right? I don’t know. All I know is five courageous men stood tall before a small family congregation and poured out their hearts and souls to the only One Who mattered in the room.

“My hope is built on nothing less, Than Jesus Christ, my righteousness, I dare not trust the sweetest frame, But wholly lean on Jesus’ name. On Christ the Solid Rock I stand, All other ground is sinking sand... “..

Click here to hear an audio of this beautiful hymn. Make it your prayer today.

God was glorified.

Families were proud.

And Susie cried!

Learning to Listen with Our Hearts

“Are you listening to me? Really listening?” Matthew 11:15 MSG

“I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy. Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live.” Psalm 116:1-2

I want to learn to listen like that! God inclines His ear to me when I talk. I want to hear with my heart so that I don’t forget what is said to me. I want others to know I do care about them.

Listening involves more than merely hearing.

We are wise to learn to listen. Especially today with so many diversions at our fingertips, focusing our attention on a single conversation can be difficult. As we put forth effort to become a better listener, we benefit others as well as ourselves. You may find, as I have, some of these simple tips are easier said than done!

How you appear to the one speaking may let them know you care.

1. Look the person in the eye as you listen. This may seem oversimplified or unnecessary, especially if you are busy meeting immediate needs and you genuinely feel you don’t have time for conversation. Pausing for a few seconds to look at them directly as you smile or pat a hand or shoulder is a visual sign you genuinely care and have their best interests in hand.

Your answers can help others communicate better.

2. Do give feedback that encourages further communication. No one wants to hear, “I know how you feel”. A better comment would be, “That must be difficult for you”. Saying “I’m so sorry you feel this way” will often help to win trust and build confidence.

There is a time to give advice and a time to wait.

3. Learn to listen without giving advice. This can be extremely difficult, especially if you feel you understand the circumstances. Make a note if you think this is a topic that may need to be addressed at a later time or with others responsible for their well-being.

Click here for what the Bible has to say about listening.

Learn why certain topics are repeated more than others.

4. Try not to get impatient with repeated conversations. Put yourself in the other person’s shoes; consider why these stories might be so important. Listen for clues that may help the person, family, or you as a caregiver.

Most people simply want someone to love them; to genuinely care about their needs.

5. Do not judge the person by what they say. You may not relate to what is said or agree, but you can show the courtesy of listening politely.

Knowing you care will build trust, help reduce tension, and release emotions. Taking time to listen, even for a few short minutes, will encourage further conversations and can produce life-changing results for all.

We can learn from Jesus who said, “Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heaven laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me: for I am meek and ye shall find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29

Hugs,

Susie

The Great Caregiver and Comforter

What did I hear?

Momma said we are safe here.

“The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8-9

As I opened my kitchen door and prepared to go out, I was about to interrupt a wildlife picnic. One more move and those beautiful deer would have been out of sight.

In the walnut grove below, a pair of tiny fawns heard the noise and afraid to move another step, they froze in place. As I quietly closed the door, Momma Doe wandered over to her babies. Immediately they relaxed and melted right into the soft grasses below, totally oblivious to anything around them except for a mother’s reassuring presence. Fear was replaced with confidence as they felt the comfort of a mother’s love.

Likewise, the turkeys in the cow pasture stopped as if frozen in their tracks. Sensing danger, they turned quickly and wobbled down the hillside to safety. Secure in the shadows of thick brush, and no longer filled with fear, they gingerly resumed pecking the ground for tasty morsels.

I learn much from watching the critters outside my windows. I relate all too well to those feelings of fear and doubt that paralyze and hamper good judgment. There are new challenges every day of our lives, especially when caring for others.

Can you relate? Do you ever stand paralyzed or frozen in your tracks when facing some circumstance in your life? Maybe it isn’t even anything too great; it just seems overwhelming at the moment. Your breath is short and you can’t seem to shake that feeling of hopelessness.

We have a Comforter who is waiting to help. He is a Great Caregiver. He knows us; every hair on our head is numbered, and every breath we take is by His command.

Click here for 50 verses of comfort.

I want to encourage each reader, whatever your circumstance, to take time to lean on Him for rest.

His word in Psalm 23 reminds us that He will lead us beside still waters and restore our souls.

Again in the 29^th Psalm, “ The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace.”

Today I pray for you that you will “cast all your cares upon Him because He cares for you.” And that you will, like the baby deer, allow yourself to melt down into the soft grasses and allow a loving Father to bring you comfort, hope, and peace for your journey.

Hugs,

Susie

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