Consider some inexpensive, practical gifts for those you love this season.

Shoppers line aisles searching for gifts for elderly and homebound loved ones. Dollars will be spent on items that may or may not be appreciated or needed. Let’s look at some inexpensive, practical gifts I was given during and after my recent 40-day hospital stay.

1. Just a cup of coffee? Really? On a long October afternoon in rehab, the aroma of freshly-brewed pumpkin pie latte announced Vickie’s arrival. She would not have us miss our monthly coffee chat. A gentle hug and short visit while sipping that yummy brew was a great pick-me-up for this weary patient!
2. Notice what was left undone at home. Spotting a box of pre-ordered lily bulbs left on our porch by the postman. Martha asked my hubby for a general idea where to plant them. (Let’s face it, flower gardens are not his thing!) Not only did she make a bed and plant each one, she carefully drew a diagram showing where each color was placed.
3. Consider the surroundings; can you spruce them up a bit?  Nancy realized I would want to relax outside more while I recuperated at home. She scraped and painted banisters and steps, swept and cleaned both porches. God granted us many beautiful autumn days to enjoy healing fresh air and sunshine.
4. Think of needs and desires before you visit. Texas friend June (pictured above), knew we were slowly making our hillsides into a park for others to enjoy. She came for a week armed with foods and with a basket of flower bulbs to plant. I have no idea what they are or where she planted all of them. Come summer we will be in for some beautiful surprises as they bloom.
5. Bring foods in non-returnable containers when possible.  Often during my six-week stay, Doug and Betsy and other neighbors and friends brought Russell home-cooked meals. (The kitchen is not his domain either!) My first weeks at home, we also had some great foods brought in. It was nice to be able to enjoy the food and not worry about returning dishes. (Note: this is also a good plan when providing food to families after a funeral.)
6. Consider the gift of youth and children singing. A Mennonite neighbor brought food and lingered at the door a few minutes, apparently waiting for someone. Following her was her daughter and eight of her friends to serenade us with beautiful music. What a blessed half hour!

Because you care for others, I know you realize this truth: the best gifts are from the heart; a kind smile; a gentle hug; a sincere prayer. I believe as we stay open to His leading, He will give us direction in how to best share His Love with others along the way.

Hugs,

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